Letting Go
Balloons full of all the no longer serve us, Release and let go!!! :)
Yes, it is good to let things go so we don’t hold onto it and have to relive the pain and uncomfortable feelings all over again. However, are we really letting it go or are we shoving it deep down and trying to forget about it? All of our painful or negative experiences show up to teach us something about ourselves. It is never truly about the other person or external thing. Rather, it is to recognize what it is that is causing us to feel the way that we do and how to move forward learning what it is that needs to be healed, addressed, or released. If we are not acknowledging that there are upsets brewing inside of us that have not been processed or worked though, they will pile up until we have an emotional overload from a smaller insignificant event.
Everyone comes to planet Earth with a specific curriculum. That is why when you grow up with siblings, they may have an entirely different experience with their childhood than you did, even though you grew up in the same house. We are all born with certain predispositions in our cells which can be turned on by the circumstances and situations that we find ourselves in. Our unique blueprints are set up so that when these internal genetic factors get “turned on” from external environmental triggers we begin our journey of navigating life with certain specific challenges that will help us learn and grow. Eventually, as we mature into adulthood we may start to question why we operate the way that we do. We may start to recognize our uniqueness, our weaknesses, and our strengths. We may develop a desire to be and do better.
Letting go is the process that is ideal in order to move forward lighter and brighter, so we don’t carry any heavy baggage around with us. It starts with forgiveness. It is helpful to forgive, as some of our biggest growth is in our relationships. If we can recognize that they actually help us learn more about ourselves, this change in perspective will pave the way for healing to happen. How we are treated is a reflection of our level of self-worth and the level of awareness of the individuals that we are dealing with. So, when you start to heal, grow, and awaken to who you truly are, you will come to understand that everyone has their own timeline of when they will awaken. This means that it is okay to accept that you may no longer quite fit into how things always were in certain circles or groups from your past. That is good news! It may hurt at first because that is all you ever knew, but once you realize what is actually happening, you will be in awe. The Universe wants you to trust in a higher calling for your life. Everyone has a calling higher at some point, but we may all be on different timelines, hence why many people may not understand you anymore. You have been given revelation and others who are not yet at that level of understanding, may feel threaten. Loving them as they are is all you can really do, as what falls away will naturally go and what is meant be here and now with you, will stay in your life. Not all people from our past are meant to walk with us into our future.
If you are feeling lost or hurt by past relationships and are struggling to let go, I can support you, coming from one who knows what that feels like at the deepest level. I don’t tell you what to do, but I will gently and lovingly guide you back to yourself to help you find your truth and strength to forgive and let go. We will work together to gain knowledge on what tools would work best for you as you move forward and heal.
My short course will help you get started if you are not ready for one on one coaching. I will be here should you decide to book a session with me. :) Here is my short course to get you started on healing and letting go. You do not have to do this alone. I want to be the person I was searching for when I was at my lowest point. I am here for you. Check it out to learn more:
All my love, https://www.thebrilliantbutterfly.com/brilliant-butterfly-course
Marcia